{"id":12387,"date":"2016-05-28T19:28:34","date_gmt":"2016-05-28T23:28:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/haiti-reference.com\/pages\/?p=12387"},"modified":"2020-09-26T20:43:53","modified_gmt":"2020-09-27T00:43:53","slug":"maman-ma-force-et-mon-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.haiti-reference.info\/pages\/2016\/05\/28\/maman-ma-force-et-mon-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"Maman, ma force et mon guide"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ch\u00e8re maman,<\/p>\n

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De ton vivant, tu attendais toujours, le jour de la F\u00eate des M\u00e8res, une lettre de ce genre, \u00e9crite, non de fa\u00e7on rituelle, mais avec ce trop-plein d\u2019amour filial. Apr\u00e8s ton d\u00e9part en 2010, j\u2019ai continu\u00e9 \u00e0 t\u2019\u00e9crire chaque ann\u00e9e en me disant, \u00e0 chaque fois, que ce sera la derni\u00e8re et que la prochaine f\u00eate des m\u00e8res, je te laisserai deviner mon amour. Et me voil\u00e0 donc, cette ann\u00e9e encore, en train d\u2019\u00e9tablir avec toi ce rapprochement \u00e9pistolaire qui me r\u00e9conforte tant.<\/p>\n

Laisse-moi tout d\u2019abord te dire, ch\u00e8re maman, que je commence \u00e0 sentir le poids des ans. Je ne suis plus aussi agile, aussi perspicace. J\u2019atteins cet \u00e2ge o\u00f9 chaque jour devient une b\u00e9n\u00e9diction.<\/p><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n\n

Aussi, ces derniers temps, je me rappelle souvent de ton \u00e9nergie, de ton ardeur quand tu avais cet \u00e2ge, ce qui accro\u00eet cette admiration que je t\u2019ai toujours port\u00e9e. Ces derniers temps, je me rappelle \u00e9galement certains de tes nombreux conseils, et celui-ci me revient souvent \u00e0 la m\u00e9moire : \u00ab Mon fils, prends toujours bien soin de toi. Personne ne le fera aussi bien que toi. \u00bb C\u2019est un conseil bien salutaire que j\u2019essaie souvent de donner \u00e0 ceux et celles que j\u2019aime bien.<\/p>\n

Je dois pourtant aujourd’hui t’avouer que, enfant et jeune adulte, je l\u2019ai souvent questionn\u00e9 consid\u00e9rant les liens \u00e9troits qui existaient entre les diff\u00e9rents membres de notre famille et o\u00f9 chacun veillait au bien-\u00eatre des autres. Je me disais que quelqu’un de la famille prendrait bien soin de moi. Aujourd’hui, je me rends compte que tu avais, en ce temps-l\u00e0, une vision proph\u00e9tique.<\/p>\n

Tu vois, maman, mon monde est bien diff\u00e9rent du tien. Les liens familiaux qui apparaissaient autrefois si \u00e9troitement tiss\u00e9s se sont d\u00e9faits \u00e0 un point tel que les nouveaux membres de notre grande famille sont inconnus de la majorit\u00e9. Nous vivons \u00e0 des milliers de kilom\u00e8tres l\u2019un de l\u2019autre et ne communiquons qu\u2019avec ceux de notre famille avec qui nous avons une certaine affinit\u00e9. Les fun\u00e9railles d\u2019un a\u00een\u00e9 constituent notre seul moment de rencontre, et l\u00e0 encore, la convivialit\u00e9 est bien superficielle. Personnellement et professionnellement, je navigue dans un r\u00e9seau compos\u00e9 de voies rapides uniquement. Mon monde met sous les feux des projecteurs ceux qui ne savent que manipuler, d\u00e9truire, et pire, mentir sans se faire d\u00e9masquer.<\/p>\n

Tu te demandes probablement pourquoi, je te raconte tout \u00e7a cette ann\u00e9e. C\u2019est ma fa\u00e7on \u00e0 moi de te dire que je vis encore avec tes souvenirs, qu\u2019ils m\u2019aident \u00e0 vivre les p\u00e9rip\u00e9ties de ma vie. Une fa\u00e7on \u00e9galement de te dire que tu m\u2019avais bien muni pour la vie. Je veux te rappeler que tu es \u00e0 l\u2019origine de nombreux de mes grands succ\u00e8s. Je veux surtout te dire que tu ne monopolises pas ma pens\u00e9e uniquement en ces jours d\u00e9di\u00e9s aux mamans, mais chaque jour depuis que tu nous as quitt\u00e9s.<\/p>\n

Quand tout semble aller au ralenti dans ma vie, je pense \u00e0 toi et \u00e0 ce que tu ferais.<\/p>\n

Quand je r\u00e9colte dans la joie le fruit de mes durs labeurs, je pense \u00e0 toi et semble t\u2019entendre me dire \u00ab Exalte devant le succ\u00e8s mais ne t\u2019y compla\u00eet pas trop car il ne marque que la fin d\u2019une entreprise et qu\u2019il y aura tant d\u2019autres dans la vie. \u00bb<\/p>\n

Quand je d\u00e9couvre que le pire m\u2019attend au d\u00e9tour d\u2019un chemin, je pense \u00e0 toi et je m\u2019arr\u00eate calmement ou emprunte une autre voie, un sentier \u00e9troit et long si possible.<\/p>\n

De toi, j\u2019ai appris qu\u2019on ne peut \u00eatre un total d\u00e9sastre ou une suite de succ\u00e8s. La vie n\u2019est ni un enfer ni un s\u00e9jour au paradis. Elle est faite de luttes qui peuvent se solder par de cuisantes d\u00e9faites et des nobles victoires. L\u2019essentiel c\u2019est ne pas se laisser totalement abattu ou trop s\u2019en enorgueillir.<\/p>\n

En ce jour de la F\u00eate des M\u00e8res, je te demande de continuer \u00e0 \u00eatre ma force et mon guide. Pour ma part, je continuerai \u00e0 ch\u00e9rir filialement ton souvenir.<\/p>\n

Bonne f\u00eate maman,<\/p>\n

Ton fils,<\/p>\n

J.A.
Samedi 28 mai 2016<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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